He (James) is a bodhisattva of understanding women.. a guy who reached enlightenment but returned to the world to show others the path.

I thought I was pretty good with women before, but now I see what’s possible. I hope this post won’t come off as bragging–if I was that great, I wouldn’t have looked for help in the first place.

The best Bootcamp experience means nothing unless you’re improving with women after you get home. In the end, if you’re thinking about learning from James, you should care about results. Here are some of mine:

Women I’m dating..

- A very cute 23 year old redhead I met at a wedding in July. The cutest single girl there. She lives near me and we still hook up from time to time. I’ve begun to realize how little age matters (I’m 33). Actually, being older is an advantage. You can be just as much fun as a younger guy, but they can not duplicate your life experience.

- A stunning 25 year old 6 ft tall German girl I met at a wedding in August that every guy was drooling over. A couple of good-looking player-types were into her, but I just sat next to her at the reception, did a little eye-contact, touch, showed direct interest and by the end of the night she was telling her father and grandmother about me. I kid you not. She lives a thousand miles away so it has since fizzled, but the Juggler Method text game was priceless in keeping the vibe going over distance! Text-game is so important to prevent phone flakes and to keep a girl interested. Bad text game is like bad breath, it will kill your game.

- I met an amazing girl at a wedding in LA in August. She is not as hot as some other girls I’ve dated. But she has personality, energy, and warmth; our connection was so strong our souls seemed lassoed together. She visited last month and she’s coming back in a few weeks. I could fall in love with this girl, but do I want a relationship right now? That’s another discussion.

- I’m seeing a gorgeous Indian chick that I met through friends. Not really a cold pick-up, but she’s worth a mention. She is an absolutely beautiful girl without much sexual experience, so I’m happy to show her what I know.

-Met a perky 26 year old Tennessee blonde a few weeks ago doing night game in NYC. She has a southern accent that could outsell viagra. It is so sexy. I met her on the street in the meatpacking (no pun intended) district and two hours later we were bed-wrestling in her 14th floor suite at the W hotel, silhouetted by the NYC night skyline outside her window. I’m visiting her in Nashville next week to practice our figure-four leg lock (Tito Santana reference, anyone?).

- Two weeks ago I met a cute little 19 year old Latin girl on the lower-east side. After an hour of making out at a club, she told me she wanted to f*ck in the bathroom (the bar had all individual bathrooms). I passed up the chance (what was I thinking!?) and took her to my friend’s apartment instead. I went on a date with her a few days later and she turned out to be incredibly sweet and she was mortified about wanting to f*ck in the bathroom.

Women with obstacles that I’m keeping in touch with..

- Stunning 27 year old Asian girl I met on a flight to Vegas. I never sit next to hot girls on the plane, is this pick-up Karma? She has a boyfriend, but we talked for 5 hrs. She loves her man, but I think she sees me as a possibility if things don’t work out with him.

- Very cute 22 year old blonde I met at Borders. Also has a boyfriend, but new to the city and I get the feeling she is “monkey-barring”– hanging on her current guy until she can grab a better one (me?). I’m just working my text game and we’ll see what happens.

- Beautiful 21 year old Finnish girl I met on the Bootcamp with Eastside Mike. She had just arrived in the US the day I met her and she’s going to school in Oregon for the year. Bad logistics and long odds, but I love the faux-innocent, flower-petal Scandinavian girls, so I’m staying involved. (FYI, James basically handed me a sexy Swedish girl on a platter back in Thailand, but I screwed it up somehow! I am still pissed about that one).

- 20-something hippie-chick from Dallas that I met in the park. She works to get asylum for Burmese refugees. I have always loved the bleeding-heart, save-the-world girls. I’ll take a “7″ looks with “10″ heart/soul/personality over the other way around any time. Just met her, so not sure where it’s going.

- 20-something nurse that works on my floor. Long black hair with bright blue eyes. Total sweetheart. I’ve dated several nurses at work before, but I’m not sure I want to complicate my workplace at this point.

- 23 year old fashion designer. James suggested I upgrade my wardrobe, so after my workshop with Mike I hired a fashion consultant. I can discuss this more elsewhere, but it is nearly the best money I’ve ever spent. I went from mediocre dresser to getting compliments in NYC bars overnight. One girl I hooked up with 2 weeks ago said she wouldn’t have noticed me, except my clothes were so cool. Anyway, my fashion consultant turns out to be really cute and smart. She’s sent some signals including wearing an incredibly sexy outfit, borderline unprofessional, last time we met. It’s probably stupid to mess with this, since I need her fashion help. But we’ll see.

All of this has happened in the past 3 months, and yet I’ve only scratched the surface. I still have trouble approaching when I’m not with a good wing. I always forget to ask about boyfriend-status and I am still uncomfortable with statements of interest. I have pretty strong inner-game, so I think that covers some of the flaws in my outer-game.

I’m old enough to know that trying to get laid is not the answer to all of life’s riddles and tribulations. But improving with women can unlock so much of your potential in all areas of life. I owe my success to my guru and friend James and my new buddy Eastside Mike.